Before A Party FAQ's
We don't issue BMFC membership cards and don't charge membership fees to join the BMFC either
We DO however still obtain details to ensure that we take the safety of our guests seriously
When it is your FIRST BMFC Party, you will be asked to provide the information so that we comply with H&S
BMFC guests do NOT need to be members of the venue where we are holding our party
Just follow the booking in advice displayed in YELLOW TEXT on our homepage
We also explain what you need to do, at the end of every Party Advert
If you are asking to attend your FIRST BMFC Party then we will then get back to you to ask for more information
Remember to always use the same email address for consistency and to speed up the booking in process
NOTE - the later you book, the less time I have to do Party Admin!
Health & Safety (including fire regulations) determine what information we need to gather from our guests in attendance. Guest safety is paramount.
Although most reputable clubs would not allow it, we are happy to accept 'custom made' MF couples.
We DO require the contact details for BOTH people. We also need a photograph of you both together - full face, no sunglasses, no filters
This is to prevent people coupling up with strangers to save a few pounds - coupling up with a stranger will result in you being then asked to leave along with the other guest should their behaviour be less desirable.
Unfortunately we have also had too many ladies left stranded at the venue because the male half of the couple has decided to leave early (often due to a disagreement - sometimes about alcohol, behaviour etc)
Couples that come together, leave together.
When you have submitted your BMFC Party Request, you need to allow me 24 hours to reply
If this is your FIRST BMFC Party (or if you are coupling up with someone NEW) then we will then reply and ask you for more information
If you do not receive ANY response within 24 hours, it will be for one of TWO reasons.
1. My reply may have gone into your SPAM BOX or JUNK MAIL so please check this before getting in touch with us or before re-applying.
2. You have given us an incorrect email address. We will then try to TEXT you. If you don't receive a text, then you may have given an incorrect phone number too.
Best thing to do would be to RE-APPLY if you don't hear anything, but only after you have followed these 2 steps.
NOTE - When you have secured a place on a guest list you will KNOW IT! - We send a VERY CLEAR Party Confirmation, that displays all the information you need to know, plus advice, tips & hints, etiquette reminder, etc
Yes. But we do need EVERYONE'S personal details, for health and safety reasons.
Of course! Everyone has to start somewhere. We would advise thoroughly reading through the information displayed on the BMFC website
We have a comprehensive FAQ section, Advice, Tips & Hints, Do's & Don'ts, Etiquette etc before even thinking of attending though.
Absolutely NOT!
The BMFC parties are all about MUTUAL attraction, MUTUAL consent and MUTUAL fun. If you want guaranteed fun, then the Swinging Scene isn't for you!
Each BMFC Venue is different. We have picked all of our venues BECAUSE they are different. Try them all out, see which one YOU think is the best!!
To help you make your informed decision, we have created a venue page for each of the venues that we use. You will find
- A brief description of the venue
- Photographs
- Party frequency
- Venue capacity
- Average attendance
- Facilities
- Door times
- Prices
- Wheelchair accessibility
- Dress Code
- Nearby accommodation
- Taxi numbers
- Nearby train stations
- Nearby airport
- Motorway links
- A map
Every BMFC venue is accessible via Public Transport. For more information about a specific venue, check out their Venue Page.
All hotel information is supplied on each individual Venue Page
Of course!
We would never refuse anyone based on the colour of their skin. As long as you are aware that the ladies and couples have MAINLY come for the BLACK GUYS. This does not mean to say that White / Asian men haven't had fun in the past, sexually or otherwise!
Yes, of course. Although we do need to mention a few things before you book in with us.
Firstly, when booking in, we need the name that is on your ID. If you are legally identified as a MALE, you maybe be charged admission for a male.
Secondly, although more people identify these days as bisexual, a lot of the guys that attend our events are either straight or keep their bisexuality private. Therefore, if you are coming to our event in the hope to potentially have fun with another male, you MAY not get lucky at the event. You MAY, however, make contacts for private meets.
With this in mind, we do ask that if you look 'convincing', that you are honest with ANYONE before attempting to have any sexual contact with them. We believe in honesty at all times as we cannot be responsible for a person's behaviour if they feel they may have been 'duped' into kissing you, touching you or going into a private area with you.
We do not ask our guests to declare their sexual preferences - however from experience I would say that the chances of any open Male Bi play taking place at one of our parties is VERY slim
Does that mean that our ALL of our single guys are straight? - No
However you need to look at your OWN expectations for the evening - if you EXPECT same sex fun, then you maybe disappointed
If you expect to make friends, have a laugh, swap contact details, arrange private meets - then you should have a great evening
Of course. We would always encourage this, although ladies are always safe on their own in our parties too!
We don't specifically have a group of bulls that travel around with us so its VITAL that our guests keep their expectations realistic
We used to organise a specific party called BMFC BULLS NIGHT, which although it was ALWAYS VERY WELL ATTENDED, it just did not attract enough Cuckhold couples (and in fact sometimes blurred the lines for our guests)
It was always a brilliant party, always very well attended, but the party was not as we had hoped it would be - ie a specific BULLS NIGHT, aimed specifically for cuckhold couples!
So, we are retaining the date but just rebranding the event - it will now be a BMFC BONUS PARTY
This takes place at XTASIA and is organised when a month has 5 Fridays - its on the 5th Friday
Every BMFC Party attracts a decent number of dominant guys, so come join us, get socialising, get flirting and once you 'connect' you will have a ball!
Yes. People attend our parties for lots of different reasons. We get..
- Singles looking for Singles.
- Couples for Single Men - Vice Versa.
- Couples looking for Single Ladies.
- Couples looking for Couples.
- People for Group Fun.
- Unicorns looking for anybody!
The parties are a place to come and socialise, make friends and have fun. If you put in the effort, then you can most definitely leave with a smile on your face. But remember, sex is NEVER guaranteed!
For many reasons. The BMFC has been established since March 2006 and it has a very strong and loyal following who appreciate the work that we do. The BMFC Team look on our guests as friends and try to have the personal touch.
Because it's our rules. Without rules, we wouldn't have lasted as long as we have. They're simple rules, and most are common sense that should be part of your day to day life anyway.
Anyone NOT abiding by our Etiquette, will get a warning and MAY be removed from the party.