Before A Party FAQ's
In short, for the majority of our parties, no. But if you ARE a BMFC member, then we can control the guestlist better, ensuring that the ratio is correct by BMFC standards.
If you aren't a member of the BMFC, then you need to be a member of the venue that the party is held at.
The ONLY venue that you HAVE to be a BMFC member for is our RADLETT party night. This night is a private event and by guestlist ONLY for BMFC members.
You need to fill out the GUESTLIST Application Form. This can be found on the bottom of ANY event page.
Please ensure you fill out all the correct information that we require, as failure to do so will result in your application being delayed.
Health & Safety (including fire regulations) determine what information we need to gather from our guests in attendance. Guest safety is paramount.
Although most reputable clubs would not allow it, we are happy to accept 'custom made' MF couples. We DO require the contact details for BOTH people. We also need a photograph of both of you together. This is to prevent people coupling up with strangers to save a few pounds. Couples that come together, leave together.
Once you have submitted your completed BMFC Party Request Form, you will get an automated response saying that we will get back to you within 24 hours.
Assuming that you have provided all the correct information, we will then reply with a VERY CLEAR party confirmation that will include your name(s) added to the guestlist, all of the details of the event and tips & hints.
If you HAVE NOT completed the form correctly, we will still reply, but telling you what you need to do next to be SUCCESSFUL in your application. Please note, this will cause a delay to the booking in process.
If you do not receive ANY response within 24 hours, it will be for one of TWO reasons.
1. It may have gone into your SPAM BOX or JUNK MAIL so please check this before getting in touch with us or before re-applying.
2. You have given us an incorrect email address. We will then try to TEXT you. If you don't receive a text, then you may have given an incorrect phone number too.
Best thing to do would be to RE-APPLY if you dont hear anything, but only after you have followed these 2 steps.
Yes. But we do need EVERYONE'S personal details, for health and safety reasons.
Of course! Everyone has to start somewhere. We would advise thoroughly reading through the BMFC ETIQUETTE before even thinking of attending though.
Absolutely NOT! The BMFC parties are all about MUTUAL attraction, MUTUAL consent and MUTUAL fun. If you want guaranteed fun, then the Swinging Scene isn't for you!
Each BMFC Venue is different. We have picked all of our venues BECAUSE they are different. Try them all out, see which one YOU think is the best!!
To help you make your informed decision, we have created a venue page for each of the venues that we use. You will find
- A brief description of the venue
- Party frequency
- Venue capacity
- Average attendance
- Door times
- Wheelchair accessibility
- Dress Code
- Nearby accommodation
- Taxi numbers
- Nearby train stations
- Nearby airport
- Motorway links
- A map
Every BMFC venue is accessible via Public Transport. For more information about a specific venue, check out their Venue Page.
All hotel information is supplied on each individual Venue Page
Of course! We would never refuse anyone based on the colour of their skin. As long as you are aware that the ladies and couples have MAINLY come for the BLACK GUYS. This does not mean to say that White / Asian men haven't had fun in the past, sexually or otherwise!
Yes, of course. Although we do need to mention a few things before you book in with us.
Firstly, when booking in, we need the name that is on your ID. If you are legally identified as a MALE, you will be charged admission for a male.
Secondly, although more people identify these days as bisexual, a lot of the guys that attend our events are either straight or keep their bisexuality private. Therefore, if you are coming to our event in the hope to potentially have fun with another male, you MAY not get lucky at the event. You MAY, however, make contacts for private meets.
With this in mind, we do ask that if you look 'convincing', that you are honest with ANYONE before attempting to have any sexual contact with them. We believe in honesty at all times as we cannot be responsible for a person's behaviour if they feel they may have been 'duped' into kissing you, touching you or going into a private area with you.
We do not ask our guests to declare their sexual preferences - however from experience I would say that the chances of any open Male Bi play taking place at one of our parties is VERY slim
Does that mean that our ALL of our single guys are straight? - No
However you need to look at your OWN expectations for the evening - if you EXPECT same sex fun, then you maybe disappointed
If you expect to make friends, have a laugh, swap contact details, arrange private meets - then you should have a great evening
Of course. We would always encourage this, although ladies are always safe on their own in our parties too!
We don't specifically have a group of bulls, but the BMFC would be a great starting point to make contacts!
Yes. People attend our parties for lots of different reasons. We get..
- Singles looking for Singles.
- Couples for Single Men - Vice Versa.
- Couples looking for Single Ladies.
- Couples looking for Couples.
- People for Group Fun.
- Unicorns looking for anybody!
The parties are a place to come and socialise, make friends and have fun. If you put in the effort, then you can most definitely leave with a smile on your face. But remember, sex is NEVER guaranteed!
For many reasons. The BMFC has been established since March 2006 and it has a very strong and loyal following who appreciate the work that we do. The BMFC Team look on our guests as friends and try to have the personal touch.
Because it's our rules. Without rules, we wouldn't have lasted as long as we have. They're simple rules, and most are common sense that should be part of your day to day life anyway.
Anyone NOT abiding by our Etiquette, will get a warning and MAY be removed from the party.