Attending A Party FAQ's
Basically, people talk, laugh, dance and flirt - Some people play, some don't. Our parties are not prescriptive and not orchestrated. The guests who get the most out of their BMFC experience are the ones who manage their expectations and abide by our BMFC etiquette.
We have a specific page on the site displaying all of our tips & hints to help you maximise your BMFC experience
Guest safety is paramount and at every party the BMFC crew will ensure that our etiquette is adhered to. We also have a robust INCIDENT PROCEDURE in place that covers all areas of guest safety
We never exceed 2 Single Black Guys to every lady
Dress Code for guys
We operate an EFFORT CODE - so if you look like you have not made an effort you may be refused admission
Please check the specific venue page for guidance as some of our venues are more strict than others (it is YOUR responsibility to ensure that you are appropriately dressed)
Dress Code for Ladies
Ladies often get all stressed when thinking about what to wear - well rest assured, there is no hard and fast rule
Whilst leggings and jeans may be comfortable, it is not always a good look at a swingers party
Ladies wear a range of outfits to our parties - club gear, lingerie, fetish outfits and everything in between - remember you can rarely go wrong with a little black dress!
Our motto is, if you feel good in it, wear it ... if you feel sexy in it, chances are you will LOOK sexy in it!! ...
Fancy dress is NEVER compulsory but ALWAYS encouraged
A dress down venue is one which requires guests to change from STREET WEAR into lingerie, shorts, boxers or towel
Many guests feel that this approach makes everyone equal
Each 'dress down' venue has its own policy in relation to WHEN guests need to do so
Now that swinging is more accessible and more acceptable, it is evident that there are more younger people attracted to this lifestyle
The average age of our guests is 35 - however the age range is from 21 to late 60s
Attendance varies and we never guarantee specific 'numbers'
We ALWAYS advise guests to only bring with you what you can afford to loose
We also advise guests to have a 'play bag'
This should contain
- Wet wipes
- Breath freshener
This bag can always be left in the cloak rooms or lockers
Mobiles phones can NOT to USED in ANY of our parties and anyone caught using one WILL be treated a a reporter and removed from the venue immediately
If you want to be successful at ANY Adult party then we advise that you turn up within the FIRST TWO HOURS
This is what we call the SOCIAL HOURS and is in our opinion the most important time
Guests turning up AFTER then, are immediately playing catch up as everyone has already started to flirt and enjoy eachother's company
Please check the individual venue page as some of the venues operate a card payment facility
Drugs are against the law and we do not condone anyone using them
Any guest caught using them on the venue premises will be removed
We encourage guests to monitor their alcohol consumption and ensure that they do not become a pest
Guests who are a nuisance WILL be removed
Smoking inside a public building is against the law - all of our venues have a designated smoking area
Please check the venue specific page to see which venues allow e-cigs within their club
As a reputable party organiser, we encourage safe sex, however we organise ADULT PARTIES and therefore expect our guests to be adult enough to make their own decisions
We are NOT the condom police and we will NOT walk around a party informing guests to put on a condom