BMFC Etiquette

BMFC Etiquette

  • No means NO – if you feel uncomfortable or awkward then stop. Swinging should be FUN and nobody should feel pressured into doing anything
  • Be polite but firm – if you are refusing to play then just politely say ‘No thanks’. Giving excuses will only prolong matters and you may find that you end up talking yourself into playing!!
  • Do NOT overdo the alcohol – swinging is a very sociable pastime but we would NEVER advise ANYONE to have an excessive amount of alcohol in their system
  • Avoid ANYONE who IS drunk – it is a known fact that someone who is drunk CAN NOT give consent to sex
  • Excellent hygiene is paramount at a swingers party – this means BEFORE and DURING the party
  • Safe Sex is sensible – as responsible party organisers, we obviously promote SAFE SEX however we are NOT the condom police and will NOT patrol parties to remind people to use them
  • Respect the playrooms – we expect at an ADULT party that our guests know how to clean up after they have played
  • Respect every guest at the party and do NOT judge who they are, how they look, or what their sexual preferences are
  • Be punctual – we advise ALL guests to arrive at a party within the FIRST TWO HOURS as this is the most important time allowing guests to socialize and ‘size eachother up”
  • Respect the venue rules – every venue has their own rules (they are usually pretty standard) however some venues are close to residential areas and it is necessary to bear that in mind when leaving the party
  • Be sociable – nobody finds a wall flower attractive
  • Remember – conversation is a TWO WAY street – it is just as important for the couples and ladies to start a conversation with the Single Guys
  • Use the dance floor – as this is where a lot of our guests start their mingling
  • Guy dress to impress – we do not expect you to wear a 3 piece suit, but we DO expect you to have made an effort
  • Ladies – even though we would never expect our ladies to only wear ‘sexy’ outfits, it must be said that jeans and a blouse will make you stand out for the wrong reasons.
  • Have FUN – an adult party is a very sociable affair where guests chat, dance, giggle and flirt